Does your life ever feel like an endless rollercoaster ride? It’s full of ups and downs and crazy hairpin turns. Sometimes it flips you upside-down or plunges you into a dark tunnel. And that’s just Monday morning!
We’ve all been there.
Yesterday I learned that I have bursitis in my right shoulder. The timing is horrible with company expected this weekend, and our home still a mess from a recently completed flooring project. Cleaning is on hold, as are my PraiseMoves classes while I work through physical therapy and try to regain mobility. I just don’t have time to be sidelined right now. But I have to ride it out.
When the Bottom Drops Out
Like an amusement park thrill ride, you’re never really prepared for what’s on the other side of that hill. You leave your stomach at the top, and scream all the way down. Never an adrenaline junkie, I was always relieved when the ride finally came to a screeching halt. My days of jumping back in line are long gone. Nowadays, I am content to sit on the park bench, minding the backpacks while everyone else rides.
When every day brings a fresh challenge, how do we gather the courage to keep on fighting? Where do we find our strength?
The Bible is always the best place to start. No matter where you are in your faith walk, you will find strength and inspiration in God’s Word:
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” — Joshua 1:9
“Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.” — Ephesians 6:10-11
“Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong.”
— Corinthians 16:13
Never Give Up
There will be days when our greatest task (or accomplishment) is getting out of bed. It’s still a victory.
For my loved ones in pain — physical and emotional — I am praying for you. I know life has beaten you down and you may feel alone, abandoned and scared. But this wild ride won’t last forever. There are peaceful days ahead. I promise!
Jesus loves you.
He will never leave you.
Cling to him and wait for the calm. ❤️
We’re back from our vacation — over 1600 miles round-trip — miles that took us through some of the most scenic winding country roads and rolling mountain passes I have ever seen. We drove across Virginia, and through parts of South Carolina, North Carolina and Tennessee. We were on the outskirts of Nashville when our faithful Toyota Avalon ticked over 100,000 miles on the odometer.
The photos can’t capture the beauty, but I’ll share a few in this post. The one above was taken in North Carolina, near the Tryon International Equestrian Center.
This week’s blog title, “Four Brave Ladies”, is a tender tribute to four women I’ve spent time with in the past five weeks, all who have recently been touched by cancer. I will not mention their names out of respect for their privacy. Their loved ones will recognize these stories.
My first tribute is for a friend I met at church shortly after we moved to Virginia. She had a wonderful sense of humor, and I enjoyed getting to know her and her family. As our children grew, we shared many laughs and stories — particularly during our kid’s teen years. She and her husband were both music teachers and I was a band mom. That provided a long-lasting connection.
Her cancer diagnosis came in October of 2017. Just two years into her retirement she received the devastating diagnosis of Stage IV pancreatic cancer. It had metastasized to her lungs. There was no cure, only the hope of a miracle and more time.
She fought valiantly for the next 21 months — a miracle in itself for a pancreatic cancer patient — during which she met many milestones for trips and family gatherings. On July 6th she met another milestone, when she held her tiny newborn granddaughter for the first time. Can you even imagine the joy in her heart when their eyes met?
On Friday evening, I received a call telling me that my friend was welcomed into the arms of Jesus. The greatest milestone of all. May she rest in eternal peace.
My second tribute is for a relatively new acquaintance. We’ve only met once or twice in the past, but our paths crossed again during our vacation. She is a breast cancer survivor. Her cancer was caught early. After diagnosis she had a mastectomy followed by a short course of chemotherapy. She was blessed with very few side effects. Her treatment is over, her spirits are high, and she is doing very well.
Throughout her cancer journey, she kept her eyes fixed on the Lord. We talked about our shared faith, our families, and our lives back home. It seemed like we had been friends for years! I was grateful that the Lord brought us together again as an encouragement to one another in our walks of faith.
My third tribute is for a friend that we have known for over 30 years. Her family lived on a farm in Maine. They were neighbors and close friends of my parents, and were a huge source of comfort and support for my mom when my father died suddenly in 1986. Her children grew up and moved away, and she and her husband relocated their farm to North Carolina several years ago, shortly after my mother and brother moved to Virginia.
We haven’t been in touch very often since their move. I reached out several weeks ago to ask if we might visit during our upcoming vacation, and was shocked to learn that she was battling breast cancer. She received the diagnosis on her birthday last year. Even though she had just completed her chemotherapy and is beginning radiation treatment, she still wanted us to visit.
It was wonderful seeing our friends again. Although the chemo left her weak and exhausted, she still enjoys her daily walks. We were given a full tour of their property, accompanied by her husband, their two granddaughters, three dogs, and a donkey. We were quite a sight to see! She is another brave fighter, and I expect she will regain her strength — and hair — very soon. I was so glad we were able to visit during our trip, and I will continue praying for her full recovery.
Yes, I mentioned four tributes, didn’t I?
”M” stands for Mom. Last Friday, while still on vacation, I received word that my mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer. She has Paget’s Disease which accounts for between 1%-4% of all breast cancers diagnosed each year. It’s very rare, but treatable. That is, if you are 85 years old and in relatively good health. My mother has advanced Vascular Dementia and a pacemaker. She cannot have an MRI or a mammogram to see how far the cancer has progressed. The disease is clearly visible though, and presented itself as a nasty rash. My brother and I will meet with a breast surgeon next week to discuss our options. It will be a difficult visit. Your prayers are coveted.
I’ve lived my entire life knowing only a handful of people who have been touched by cancer. Suddenly this disease is touching so many lives of people I love. It is hard to not feel a sense of helplessness or even dread, however, I have a Father who holds me safe and secure. I have confidence and the reassurance that He will uphold me through whatever trials are on the horizon.
“I consider that sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory about to be revealed to us.” — Romans 8:18